Only 2 ways to look at stuff….
4th October 2016
There are always really two ways of looking at things, the positive way and negative way. We all have moments in our lives when we question what we are doing, who we are dating and the time we spend on emotionally exhausting friendships that take more then they give.
What we are doing? Most times it starts well and with good intentions. That job, internship or setting up your own business… but as it becomes your routine you realise you either are not progressing or feeling stuck. Most of us stay stuck and worry about money and what people will think. But in the long run that will only pro-long the feeling of frustration and make you feel helpless.
In reality you could sit down and do a good old fashioned list… remember them… ? Seeing the things you enjoy and the things you don’t in your choice of work in front of you will totally make you face up to it and then work out what you want to do.
Talk to someone get advice you are never STUCK it’s really up to you to change your life and start enjoying it again.
Let’s say you are working in a salon as a Junior Stylist and realise now you are doing it you really don’t enjoy cutting or colouring hair, but still want to work in that enviorment.
Think about other things you could do like marketing the salon and creating new styles that you can introduce to the clients. It’s never all or nothing, sometimes there is room for compromise.
Also you may actually decide you want to do something totally different, that’s fine because you have defo picked up loads of experience and become a wiser you from this time.
Nothing is ever all bad or a waste of time, look at it in a positive way and take the good things from it and keep it moving.
I know it’s not easy said and done, but if you want something better you have to fight against the negativity and go get it!
It’s funny since I have been blogging full-time and doing my Youtube channel ( not enough if I’m honest, plan to fix it) I have discovered a group of women online that are inspiring me more then anyone has over the last few years.
Starting wth Huda Beauty, she has become my obsession not just for her contouring skills but her sweet funny and sisterly personalty. She doesn’t remotely act like a bitch and has achieved so much. In Dubai she is their Kim Kardashian (minus the sex tape and Kanye ( no shade but important to be clear). Huda has created her beauty empire and somehow has kept sane and lovely. Check her out here!
Monica Rose is a stylist to every hot girl killing it right now, from Gigi & Bella Hadid to Kylie & Kendall Jenner! This woman is responsible for styling some of the most popular women in the world and manages to do it with class and no ego. I love following her on Instagram and getting inspired with my own style and taking more risks. Get to know Monica here.
Caroline Hirons Beauty expert and super cool blogger. She writes her perpective in such an honest way that makes me think I want to hang with her. I love reading her blog and getting to know someone who works in an industry obsesssed with beauty but isn’t spending all her time trying to be flipping perfect. Get to know Caroline here.
Isn’t it funny that all these ladies work in beauty and fashion… industries that are perceived as being packed with superficial fake girls, these three are so not like that.
Earlier today I noticed Demi was throwing shade on Taylor… I have no idea who is to blame but it did make me very sad. Girls that are successful should be congratulating each other and being motivated by one another not putting each other down. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and lead by example…. let’s be that girl we expect others to be and as Selena would say Kill Em With Kindness!
Luv Max x
Thank you for this inspiring article. It really is the way it is. For me personally it is sometimes hard to think positive but because of people like you we never give up. We could all make a change somehow. 🙂
While you look up to these women,we look up to you too. You followed your passion and what you really want to do and have been brave. This should be a true example to all of us! And it is! 🙂
Thank you for another great inspiring true story ♥️